It’s been almost exactly a year since my last attempt at taking stock and now that the country is back…
THE PRACTICE
I’ve been seeing and hearing a lot about gratitude in the last year. I’ve found it difficult to seek out…
IN MY TIME
I’ve taken some time recently to think about what my hair means to me, if anything. Especially since my transition…
BEYOND A WHOLESOME DISCIPLINE
Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. – Max Ehrmann When I was a child, my mom used to…
Dancing
As a follow up to last week’s post, today’s guest post is by my twin sister, Sharon Malonza. If you’ve…
Where I End and Others Begin
In the last couple of months I’ve had the most insightful conversations with the people I love and spend a…
TENDING TO MYSELF
I’m allowing myself space to tend to my beginnings. This means that I am trying to be gentle with myself…
THE AFTER LIFE
Death leaves a lingering taste in your mouth. I suppose this is why the seemingly African tradition around grievers is…
SURRENDER
I’ve been trying to be more deliberate about rest and taking care of myself. Deliberate, because rest for me has…
ON THE OTHER SIDE
‘… that there is something on the other side of endurance.’ I read this as part of Aleya Kassam’s meditations…