Anticipatory loss or grief is considered the ‘in between place‘ before you experience a life changing event. I’ve been naming,…
EXTERNALISING: MY OUTSIDE VOICE
I’m actively working on existing more outside of my head, on giving myself space to actively be a person and…
THE COMPLEXITY
Every introductory sentence to this post that I’ve thought of started with a declaration that I’ve been struggling to be…
MORE
I took some time away to situate myself, to catch up with myself away from any internal narratives around what…
FINDING REST: THREE
It’s been almost exactly a year since my last attempt at taking stock and now that the country is back…
THE PRACTICE
I’ve been seeing and hearing a lot about gratitude in the last year. I’ve found it difficult to seek out…
IN MY TIME
I’ve taken some time recently to think about what my hair means to me, if anything. Especially since my transition…
BEYOND A WHOLESOME DISCIPLINE
Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. – Max Ehrmann When I was a child, my mom used to…
Dancing
As a follow up to last week’s post, today’s guest post is by my twin sister, Sharon Malonza. If you’ve…
Where I End and Others Begin
In the last couple of months I’ve had the most insightful conversations with the people I love and spend a…
