I took some time away to situate myself, to catch up with myself away from any internal narratives around what … More

FINDING REST: THREE

It’s been almost exactly a year since my last attempt at taking stock and now that the country is back … More

THE PRACTICE

I’ve been seeing and hearing a lot about gratitude in the last year. I’ve found it difficult to seek out … More

I’ve taken some time recently to think about what my hair means to me, if anything. Especially since my transition … More

Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. – Max Ehrmann When I was a child, my mom used to … More

As a follow up to last week’s post, today’s guest post is by my twin sister, Sharon Malonza. If you’ve … More

In the last couple of months I’ve had the most insightful conversations with the people I love and spend a … More

I’m allowing myself space to tend to my beginnings. This means that I am trying to be gentle with myself … More

Death leaves a lingering taste in your mouth. I suppose this is why the seemingly African tradition around grievers is … More

I’ve been trying to be more deliberate about rest and taking care of myself. Deliberate, because rest for me has … More