ANTICIPATORY

Anticipatory loss or grief is considered the ‘in between place‘ before you experience a life changing event. I’ve been naming, … More

EXTERNALISING: MY OUTSIDE VOICE

I’m actively working on existing more outside of my head, on giving myself space to actively be a person and … More

Every introductory sentence to this post that I’ve thought of started with a declaration that I’ve been struggling to be … More

I’ve taken some time recently to think about what my hair means to me, if anything. Especially since my transition … More

Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. – Max Ehrmann When I was a child, my mom used to … More

Grief is not language I use to describe how I feel. Between the long instagram captions and countless podcast episodes … More

People pull you out of yourself. – Binyavanga Wainaina The first time I read this and every time I remembered … More

On my twenty first birthday, I received an inordinate amount of advice. While being at a function for the better … More

We all have to start somewhere if us want to do better, and our own self is what us have … More

I recently had a conversation where ‘growing up’ came up and the girl who brought it up, meant it in … More